Welcome to The Estuary Dungeon & Shibari Lounge.

Please have a read of our t’s & c’s before attending ANY of our events

The Terms and Conditions are necessary to protect both of our interests, apologies for the long wordy points to follow, but it’s all very important for health and safety among other reasons.

1. The Estuary Dungeon & Shibari Lounge operates a ‘Leave as Found’ basis and requires all guests to leave the premises clean, tidy and quietly. Please note we are situated in a residential area so need to respect the neighbourhood and arrive in ‘vanilla’ clothing to evade any suspicion of what magical fun is happening behind those walls.

2. If you are a smoker, you may smoke outside the front of the building but please be dressed in vanilla clothing whilst doing so and make sure the front door remains closed.

3. You may take photos on your own devices inside the venue but photos of the exterior of the building is strictly prohibited. Please make sure you have consent from those in the photo before taking it.

4. Consent is KEY. This applies to photos, touching as well as play. We operate using “P.R.I.C.K.” (Personally Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink) and “R.A.C.K.” (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Please be well aquatinted with the above so there is no miscommunication between anyone and the parties can continue. If you need any further clarification on consent then please do get in touch.

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5. Be aware that your use of The Estuary Dungeon & Shibari Lounge and our equipment is at your own risk and by attending any events here you release and discharge the owner of The Estuary Dungeon & Shibari Lounge from any and all liability for injury or fatality occurring from your use of the space. We accept no responsibility for injury caused by improper use of equipment or furniture.

6. Inside The Estuary Dungeon & Shibari Lounge you will have access to very expensive equipment, we’d be very grateful if you took good care of it.

7. Broken Furniture or Equipment will be charged at cost price to replace.

8. No hot drinks on the mats in the Shibari Lounge please.

9. The Estuary Dungeon & Shibari Lounge does not tolerate drugs of any kind. Please drink sensibly, I would normally implement a no ‘kink and drink’ rule, but we trust that everyone knows their limits and can operate and function within those.

10. Do not suspend from the ceiling unless you have experience with rigging. Please see the separate documents on use of the hard points and tools used in the build if you intend to use the suspension frames or carry out any type of rope that involve secure points around the building.

11. Any questions on anything, please message Bex-Bunny on Fetlife, Discord or via WhatsApp if you have her number, you can also reach us at estuarydungeon@gmail.com

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12. All play is acceptable (apart from Scat and watersports) but please clear up after yourselves- especially wax etc.

13. No Shoes are to be worn in the Shibari Lounge please

14. Do not interrupt anyone’s scene or aftercare unless there is an emergency- Respect people’s space.